A good place to begin, is to forgive yourself for judging in the first place.

Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power. — Shirley MacLaine

To carry a grudge is like being stung to death by one bee. — William H. Walton

Resentments are burdens we don&#039;t need to carry. — Anonymous

The enslaver is enslaved  the hater  harmed. — Marianne Moore

By putting his hand around my neck  he slowly strangled himself. — Minako Ohba

The one who deals the mortal blow receives the mortal wound. — Maude Parker

Without forgiveness life is governed ... by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation. — Robert Assaglioli

Malice drinks one-half of its own poison. — Marcus Annaeus Seneca

I tell you  there is no such thing as creative hate! — Willa Cather

Reject hatred without hating. — Mary Baker Eddy

Hate would destroy him who hated. — Louis L&#039;Amour